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Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.

1. Emotional connection.

If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.

2. Great comfort level.

One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.

3. Ability to forget the world.

The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.

4. Imagination.

Great kissers don’t just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss – then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.

5. Rhythm.

The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you room to breathe. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.

If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.

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seduceherkissingsecrets1I’m going to be perfectly honest. When I heard about this book, I thought to myself, “You’ve got to be kidding. A whole book on just learning how to kiss?” Well, this book is more than just that. In fact, this may be one of the most comprehensive books you’ll see on not only kissing technique but dealing with women in general. So let’s get right down to the nuts and bolts of what you’ll be getting.

The book is actually a step by step process of how to seduce a woman, right from the first encounter to that magical kiss. Yes, it’s a bit calculated and some people might be put off by that. I mean after all, shouldn’t this be a natural thing? Unfortunately, some guys are so petrified of women that it’s not. Heck, they can’t even talk to them. So calculated or not, this book is needed by many.

In fact, the book is so calculated, that there are no less than 37 different techniques for seducing women. Some of them are downright sinister and should probably be made illegal. But hey, who am I to judge?

A great part of the book is that it will teach you how to tell if the woman even wants to be kissed. This alone is worth the price of the whole book. Yes, body language is a big part of it and this book goes into it in great detail.

The book also goes into the three things that you absolutely must do in order to avoid rejection. Do NOT skip this part for any reason whatsoever.

There is also something the author calls the 5 C’s of kissing that are just pure genius and something that every guy should know.

Look, I could keep going on and on about this book for days but instead of boring you to death, why not just go to his site and see what he has to offer.

I give it

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ebook_kissingWhat’s the difference between a kiss that goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips.

Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.

1. Emotional connection.

If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.

2. Great comfort level.

One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.

3. Ability to forget the world.

The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.

4. Imagination.

Great kissers don’t just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss – then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.

5. Rhythm.

The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you room to breath. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.

If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.

Learn more tips and techniques like these in my book, Kissing 101. You’ll learn step-by-step methods for becoming a fantastic kisser. It’s completely illustrated, so there’s no way you can go wrong! Avoid rejection by learning the signals that tell you to go or not go for a kiss. Become an expert in body language: interpret how your partner responds to your kiss with my handy guide. Whether you want to learn how to French kiss or what it would be like to kiss with a tongue ring, my complete guide to kissing tips and techniques has the answers! Check it out today

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ok. 36yo female here. guy is 39yo. had our first kiss after a date last night & it wasn’t great. but I really like this fella so this isn’t a deal breaker.

however, i want to enjoy kissing him. how should I let him know how i prefer to be kissed? should i verbalize it? would it hurt his feelings or embarrass him. What would you say? have you ever been in this situation?

I would love to hear from some men about this one.

thanks.

say that you prefer to be kissed "like this" and show him. It doesn’t have to mean that the original way you guys were kissing was bad, just that you prefer a different way. Hopefully he’ll get the hint without having to ask straight out if "I’m a bad kisser." Good luck.