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Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.
1. Emotional connection.
If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.
2. Great comfort level.
One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.
3. Ability to forget the world.
The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.
4. Imagination.
Great kissers don’t just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss – then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.
5. Rhythm.
The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you room to breathe. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.
If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.
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Do you want to drive a woman wild with great french kissing techniques? Well, the first thing I do is to see if she really wants to be kissed, let alone a french kiss. As a man I never like to be rejected by kissing too soon.
So how can one check this out? One thing to do during the date is to check out the body language and the sexual vibe.
*Is she looking in your eyes with love eyes?
*Is she holding your eye contact?
*Is she facing you and having a lot of leg visible and maybe flirting by touching her hair?
*Has she touched you a little?
So when you get the feeling that she really does want a kiss, one thing I like to do is to lightly run my fingers slowly up the back of her hair. Most women love a very light touch anywhere on their bodies.
Light and slow is my motto in learning to kiss well.
The important thing is to really enjoy touching your girl. If you just are touching to turn her on, she will pick this up and she could loose interest. It is better to really be present in your touch and enjoy and feel the energy.
A great kisser just loves kissing and he kisses as if this is the only thing he wants to do with his lover. My best kissing tip is to kiss as if you has been waiting to kiss her for years and you are going to experience every moment of each kiss. Savor every kiss and enjoy each french kiss like it was your first kiss.
Just have the idea that this could be the last kiss ever with ANY women.
Another way to lead up to the french kissing is to touch her face ever so lightly. One can also try to gently grab her hair and pull slightly. Most women love this and can dissolve. Now not to hard, men!
So now the stage is set for the next step in leaning to kiss by building in up the sexual tension using anticipation in kissing.
Using anticipation in french kissing is a great way to hot things up. So kiss for a bit and draw away and talk a bit. Now kiss again and draw away. This drives most women wild.
Most men have no idea in how to really build up sexual tension in a date with a women.
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What’s the difference between a kiss that goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips.
Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some kisses are super, while others end up duds.
1. Emotional connection.
If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.
2. Great comfort level.
One of the great killers of the pleasure of kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and flow in the moment.
3. Ability to forget the world.
The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you kiss and let nothing else matter.
4. Imagination.
Great kissers don’t just do what they do best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss – then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble the ear. Be inventive.
5. Rhythm.
The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you room to breath. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through catching his or her eyes and breathing together.
If you really care about someone, are completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more intense and enjoyable.
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As kissing is your calling card, and it often leaves your partner with the first impression of your sexuality, a good kisser is often more likely to move on to the next step.
Here are 3 tips on kissing techniques:
The Lips
The lips are not there just to be kept open. They need to move. Use your lips to gently massage your partner’s lips. Start with the top lip and move your way around over the bottom lip before moving on to the full open mouth French kiss. Continue to do this until your partnr is ready to recieve your tongue.
The Tongue
It is best not to force your tongue inside your partner’s mouth. An invasion of the tongue can be very off putting, especially if your partner is not into this kind of kissing.
Rather, start of by gently moving your tongue over your partner’s lips, giving gentle nudges. If your partner likes the sensation, she will open her lips and allow your tongue to slip inside. Once your tongue is inside her mouth, let the tip of it gently move around her tongue, almost like an invitation to play. If she agrees, start massaging her tongue with yours.
Breathing
It is important to keep your breathing slow and in steady rhythm. It is very off putting when it feels like your partner is gulping for breath. This also breaks the rhythmic motions of both partners.
By following the above tips, you will no doubt be on your way to becoming a great kisser.
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