Posts Tagged ‘First Kiss’
Benjamin Wise asked:
Nobody wants to be a bad kisser. Further more nobody wants to be a sloppy kisser. There is nothing worse than somebody drooling all over your face. The French kiss is known as a very passionate sensual kiss.
Both parties can get very aroused by it. The French kiss is the most intimate of kisses and often times makes the critical first impression. Getting it wrong may be the end of the road.
The essence of the French kiss is when one individuals tongue touches and caresses the other. The objective is to stimulate the lips and the tongue. These areas are extremely sensitive to the touch which can lead to increased sexual arousal.
The French kiss is also known as the tongue kiss. When starting out you do not want the tongue to go too far into the mouth. Essentially you want to play with the tongue.
When playing with the tongue push and circle around it. You can also circle towards the roof and just inside of the mouth. If she pushes her tongue against yours push back and enjoy the play…
The French kiss is considered as the oral dance. As the kisser you can lead or follow the others tongue. Play with her, have fun, caress and hold her close. Soft touching around her face and putting your hands through her hair all add to the arousal of French kissing..
French kissing is a beautiful and is one of the most passionate points of sexual intimacy. I remember when I was younger after you would go out on a date the first questions the girls would ask is “How was the kiss”? Kissing says a lot about the kisser. It can make all the difference in that all important first impression.
When it comes to that first kiss, you can’t afford to make any mistakes. Learn more by selecting one of the links below.
Kansieo.com
Nobody wants to be a bad kisser. Further more nobody wants to be a sloppy kisser. There is nothing worse than somebody drooling all over your face. The French kiss is known as a very passionate sensual kiss.
Both parties can get very aroused by it. The French kiss is the most intimate of kisses and often times makes the critical first impression. Getting it wrong may be the end of the road.
The essence of the French kiss is when one individuals tongue touches and caresses the other. The objective is to stimulate the lips and the tongue. These areas are extremely sensitive to the touch which can lead to increased sexual arousal.
The French kiss is also known as the tongue kiss. When starting out you do not want the tongue to go too far into the mouth. Essentially you want to play with the tongue.
When playing with the tongue push and circle around it. You can also circle towards the roof and just inside of the mouth. If she pushes her tongue against yours push back and enjoy the play…
The French kiss is considered as the oral dance. As the kisser you can lead or follow the others tongue. Play with her, have fun, caress and hold her close. Soft touching around her face and putting your hands through her hair all add to the arousal of French kissing..
French kissing is a beautiful and is one of the most passionate points of sexual intimacy. I remember when I was younger after you would go out on a date the first questions the girls would ask is “How was the kiss”? Kissing says a lot about the kisser. It can make all the difference in that all important first impression.
When it comes to that first kiss, you can’t afford to make any mistakes. Learn more by selecting one of the links below.
Kansieo.com
Pauline Go asked:
To kiss or not to kiss — that is the question that hovers in every person’s mind. While driving your date back home after a romantic evening, you may feel a bit tensed and excited as you keep thinking whether you should kiss your date at her doorstep or in the car after turning off the ignition. Well, the first thing to remember that the kiss will hold the future for both of you.
Let us take the women’s perspective. While most girls love kissing, some do not. Men may think about the ways of kissing but some women are not prepared to take such a bold step. Thus, the first kiss with your date is always difficult as everything might depend on it. While some are quite experienced in handling such situations, others may freeze with fear and anxiety.
Here are some ways to initiate a kiss and make the kissing experience beautiful and memorable experience:
Relax
Yes, relax. Wait for the chance to come. Allow her to know you well enough before you initiate a kiss. During the date, have a conversation with her in a more casual way without being too romantic. That will make her feel more comfortable.
Decide your steps:
Before going forward to kiss your date, the first thing that you should bear in mind is whether your date is ready to lock lips with you. She may interrupt by talking about some different topic. So, it is best to decide and plan your steps.
The first move:
While making the first move, look out for her body language. Most women like to touch or keep their hands on the shoulders of a person to whom they are attracted. These positive signs from a woman will make you feel less anxious and you may feel free to kiss her.
The final showdown:
Generally a woman does not mind a gentle soft kiss on her first date. The first approach is the most important part of kissing. Lean close towards her lips without directly going for the kill. If she is interested she will move towards you a little bit. Without rushing just put your hands gently on the back of her neck and kiss her gently on the lips. Do not apply too much pressure on her neck and avoid pulling her towards you. Do not try the French kiss on the very first date!
And, above all, make sure that your have a pleasant breath. Nothing is a bigger turn off than bad breath!
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To kiss or not to kiss — that is the question that hovers in every person’s mind. While driving your date back home after a romantic evening, you may feel a bit tensed and excited as you keep thinking whether you should kiss your date at her doorstep or in the car after turning off the ignition. Well, the first thing to remember that the kiss will hold the future for both of you.
Let us take the women’s perspective. While most girls love kissing, some do not. Men may think about the ways of kissing but some women are not prepared to take such a bold step. Thus, the first kiss with your date is always difficult as everything might depend on it. While some are quite experienced in handling such situations, others may freeze with fear and anxiety.
Here are some ways to initiate a kiss and make the kissing experience beautiful and memorable experience:
Relax
Yes, relax. Wait for the chance to come. Allow her to know you well enough before you initiate a kiss. During the date, have a conversation with her in a more casual way without being too romantic. That will make her feel more comfortable.
Decide your steps:
Before going forward to kiss your date, the first thing that you should bear in mind is whether your date is ready to lock lips with you. She may interrupt by talking about some different topic. So, it is best to decide and plan your steps.
The first move:
While making the first move, look out for her body language. Most women like to touch or keep their hands on the shoulders of a person to whom they are attracted. These positive signs from a woman will make you feel less anxious and you may feel free to kiss her.
The final showdown:
Generally a woman does not mind a gentle soft kiss on her first date. The first approach is the most important part of kissing. Lean close towards her lips without directly going for the kill. If she is interested she will move towards you a little bit. Without rushing just put your hands gently on the back of her neck and kiss her gently on the lips. Do not apply too much pressure on her neck and avoid pulling her towards you. Do not try the French kiss on the very first date!
And, above all, make sure that your have a pleasant breath. Nothing is a bigger turn off than bad breath!
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Jesse Allen asked:
Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine whether or not you are a good lover. If you cannot kiss, chances are you are lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable to women.
I have a lot of female friends and let me tell you, whenever they first kiss man the first thing they do is tell everyone they know how it was. One of the first questions asked to a woman after a date (sometimes the first question) is: “So, did you kiss?” If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by “What it good?”
You may have taken my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my kissing advice , you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That is if you don’t know how to kiss already, of course. Knowing how most men think I am assuming that you believe you already know how to kiss girls properly. From what I’ve heard through my female friends, however, chances are you do not know everything.
Everything you do when kissing a girl, especially for the first time, will have her re-evaluating any pre-judgments she may have had about you. You could give the first impression that you are confident, sensual, and smart, but if you give her a bad kissing experience she will immediately associate a new set of beliefs to you.
Women want to be with a man who can make them feel as though they are the sexiest woman alive, and this cannot be accomplished if you cannot kiss. She will also think you don’t give a damn because excellent kissing advice is everywhere and finding effective kissing tips is very easily found – if you look for it.
Learning how to kiss girls goes far deeper than applying a bunch of kissing tips on her, though. In order to blow any woman away with your lips you have got to know when and how to execute those kissing tips . The mood and timing play a major factor and if not carefully executed it won’t matter whether you are a kissing master because she cannot fully enjoy it!
Men are so much different than women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss a woman he is interested gives him, even if it’s a bad kiss. I have slept with many girls who couldn’t kiss worth a damn because we men are animals. Plus, most men, along with myself, believe they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they desire.
Women, on the other hand, are far more picky. If they are not impressed or are repulsed by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never get into a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he’s doing and believe they should never have to teach him about kissing. After all, in a woman’s mind a bad kisser is a man who’s not sensual – and sensuality, to a woman, cannot be taught.
Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any kiss for that matter, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasurable. That said, a kiss is not just a physical action, it is an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.
Building Anticipation
One of my favorite kissing tips I have used over the years is building anticipation. If you are receiving positive signals from a girl and are almost 100% sure she would like you to kiss her, hold off. Anticipation will build tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. Everything good in life is worth waiting for, and a first kiss is no exception.
There are so many things a man has to do before going in for a kiss and this article will give you some very valuable kissing advice that will blow her socks off. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we have a very good understanding of what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.
Be Kissable
A man has got to be kissable if he wants any woman to crave his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, soft, silky, and smooth. Do you know how many men I have seen out on a date with dry, chapped, and cracked lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don’t care how attractive you are, if you’re lips are disgusting no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before you go out with a woman. Lip balm works wonders and I cannot recommend its use enough. You can limit its use only for dates and while meeting women, but if you don’t mind building somewhat of a dependence on the stuff, use it all the time!
Prevent Or Mask Bad Breath
So you’ve got nice lips already, do you? Okay, there are some of us who do, but there is something else you should always ask yourself: “How does my breath smell?” People with bad breath rarely know that they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day you should always bring breath mints when you are with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not eliminate halitosis (bad breath) because teeth are not the culprit that cause bad breath.
Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to defeat it is by using breath mints. Also, drink a lot of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from getting dry, and a dry mouth smells a lot worse than a moist one. This kissing advice must be followed always because you could be doing everything else right, but if your breath smells, sayonara. You fail. Women are very sensitive to smells and bad breath will have them turning away and running out the door faster than a bad out of hell.
Be Sure She Is Ready To Be Kissed
Even if you have the nicest teeth and freshest smelling breath, you have to know for sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail on reading female body language and signals women send so I recommend you become familiar with them because nothing is as embarrassing as being turned away from a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is really easy to know if they are kissable.
If you think a woman is sending signals that she can be kissed, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don’t rush into a kiss, especially first kisses, even you’re receiving positive vibes. Like I said earlier, building anticipation is very effective and picking the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set you up and help you execute, but it is ultimately up to you to decide if the time is right.
Move In For The Kiss
Once you think the time is right, make your approach and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn’t have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn’t expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.
Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don’t go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I’m sure that women find it even more bizarre.
Be Gentle
The first kiss must be gentle. You don’t want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don’t be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman’s throat. A french kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.
After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn’t move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual.
Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss
Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don’t start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she’ll think you’re just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don’t rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don’t just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: “I don’t want to miss even a millimeter of your lips.”
Relax And Breathe
Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, though second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. Not that you’ll end up suffocating if you’re into a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and making silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.
Touch Her While Kissing
One of the most effective kissing tips you will ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice you must not overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need a lot more. Using your hands by touching and/or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outer part of her arms or hold her hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not to feel her up.
Don’t Just Kiss Her Lips
After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of the face. The side of her mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and anywhere else on her face . Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel as though you cannot get enough of her entire face. Don’t overdo it though – you are not a dog.
Say Sweet Nothings
You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you’ve had a crush on her for a while and were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on the softness of her lips and how pleasant she smells. Make her feel as though she is the most attractive woman you’ve ever kissed and I promise you she will open up even more and be comfortable in progressing into french kissing or even sex. Learning how to french kiss deserves its own kissing advice article so I won’t get into it here. Just know that comfort level is important in getting the most out of a kissing session.
The kissing tips I’ve outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to a lot of men and never have any of them been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help and hope that you enjoy ever last minute while your lips are touching hers.
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Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine whether or not you are a good lover. If you cannot kiss, chances are you are lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable to women.
I have a lot of female friends and let me tell you, whenever they first kiss man the first thing they do is tell everyone they know how it was. One of the first questions asked to a woman after a date (sometimes the first question) is: “So, did you kiss?” If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by “What it good?”
You may have taken my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my kissing advice , you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That is if you don’t know how to kiss already, of course. Knowing how most men think I am assuming that you believe you already know how to kiss girls properly. From what I’ve heard through my female friends, however, chances are you do not know everything.
Everything you do when kissing a girl, especially for the first time, will have her re-evaluating any pre-judgments she may have had about you. You could give the first impression that you are confident, sensual, and smart, but if you give her a bad kissing experience she will immediately associate a new set of beliefs to you.
Women want to be with a man who can make them feel as though they are the sexiest woman alive, and this cannot be accomplished if you cannot kiss. She will also think you don’t give a damn because excellent kissing advice is everywhere and finding effective kissing tips is very easily found – if you look for it.
Learning how to kiss girls goes far deeper than applying a bunch of kissing tips on her, though. In order to blow any woman away with your lips you have got to know when and how to execute those kissing tips . The mood and timing play a major factor and if not carefully executed it won’t matter whether you are a kissing master because she cannot fully enjoy it!
Men are so much different than women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss a woman he is interested gives him, even if it’s a bad kiss. I have slept with many girls who couldn’t kiss worth a damn because we men are animals. Plus, most men, along with myself, believe they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they desire.
Women, on the other hand, are far more picky. If they are not impressed or are repulsed by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never get into a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he’s doing and believe they should never have to teach him about kissing. After all, in a woman’s mind a bad kisser is a man who’s not sensual – and sensuality, to a woman, cannot be taught.
Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any kiss for that matter, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasurable. That said, a kiss is not just a physical action, it is an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.
Building Anticipation
One of my favorite kissing tips I have used over the years is building anticipation. If you are receiving positive signals from a girl and are almost 100% sure she would like you to kiss her, hold off. Anticipation will build tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. Everything good in life is worth waiting for, and a first kiss is no exception.
There are so many things a man has to do before going in for a kiss and this article will give you some very valuable kissing advice that will blow her socks off. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we have a very good understanding of what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.
Be Kissable
A man has got to be kissable if he wants any woman to crave his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, soft, silky, and smooth. Do you know how many men I have seen out on a date with dry, chapped, and cracked lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don’t care how attractive you are, if you’re lips are disgusting no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before you go out with a woman. Lip balm works wonders and I cannot recommend its use enough. You can limit its use only for dates and while meeting women, but if you don’t mind building somewhat of a dependence on the stuff, use it all the time!
Prevent Or Mask Bad Breath
So you’ve got nice lips already, do you? Okay, there are some of us who do, but there is something else you should always ask yourself: “How does my breath smell?” People with bad breath rarely know that they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day you should always bring breath mints when you are with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not eliminate halitosis (bad breath) because teeth are not the culprit that cause bad breath.
Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to defeat it is by using breath mints. Also, drink a lot of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from getting dry, and a dry mouth smells a lot worse than a moist one. This kissing advice must be followed always because you could be doing everything else right, but if your breath smells, sayonara. You fail. Women are very sensitive to smells and bad breath will have them turning away and running out the door faster than a bad out of hell.
Be Sure She Is Ready To Be Kissed
Even if you have the nicest teeth and freshest smelling breath, you have to know for sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail on reading female body language and signals women send so I recommend you become familiar with them because nothing is as embarrassing as being turned away from a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is really easy to know if they are kissable.
If you think a woman is sending signals that she can be kissed, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don’t rush into a kiss, especially first kisses, even you’re receiving positive vibes. Like I said earlier, building anticipation is very effective and picking the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set you up and help you execute, but it is ultimately up to you to decide if the time is right.
Move In For The Kiss
Once you think the time is right, make your approach and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will freak her out. She wouldn’t have time to enjoy the kiss because she isn’t expecting it. This is the final few seconds of anticipation, when your eyes are locked and nothing is being said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss a lot more than if a kiss is taken from her.
Your approach must be slow and smooth. Smile and take this chance while you are close to enjoy her smell. Don’t go directly for the lips, take a detour and hover her face while gently skimming your lips along her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Pull back and look into her eyes again. While moving in be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes while moving in closer will leave her thinking you are examining her imperfections and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will freak her out. There have been a few times when I caught a woman with her eyes open and let me tell you, there is nothing weirder. I’m sure that women find it even more bizarre.
Be Gentle
The first kiss must be gentle. You don’t want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to meet her lips, and for crying out loud, don’t be one of those guys who forces his tongue down a woman’s throat. A french kiss on your first attempt will make you seem over-eager and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.
After meeting her lips for a few seconds, pull away and look into her eyes some more. Notice if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn’t move in herself within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little longer while remaining gentle and sensual.
Enjoy Her Lips And The Kiss
Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is enjoyable enough. Don’t start petting her inner thigh or her breasts during the first few kisses or she’ll think you’re just trying to get laid. Take time to enjoy the kiss and don’t rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as though you are enjoying every last contour. Don’t just lock your lips, you want to feel every bit of her lips. Move from upper lip to lower lip and vice versa. Do whatever you can that says: “I don’t want to miss even a millimeter of your lips.”
Relax And Breathe
Relax and make sure you are breathing. Breathing, though second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. Not that you’ll end up suffocating if you’re into a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and making silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.
Touch Her While Kissing
One of the most effective kissing tips you will ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice you must not overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need a lot more. Using your hands by touching and/or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outer part of her arms or hold her hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep it innocent and not to feel her up.
Don’t Just Kiss Her Lips
After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of the face. The side of her mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and anywhere else on her face . Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel as though you cannot get enough of her entire face. Don’t overdo it though – you are not a dog.
Say Sweet Nothings
You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you’ve had a crush on her for a while and were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on the softness of her lips and how pleasant she smells. Make her feel as though she is the most attractive woman you’ve ever kissed and I promise you she will open up even more and be comfortable in progressing into french kissing or even sex. Learning how to french kiss deserves its own kissing advice article so I won’t get into it here. Just know that comfort level is important in getting the most out of a kissing session.
The kissing tips I’ve outlined above work brilliantly. I give kissing advice to a lot of men and never have any of them been disappointed. I know that these tips on how to kiss girls will help and hope that you enjoy ever last minute while your lips are touching hers.
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ok. 36yo female here. guy is 39yo. had our first kiss after a date last night & it wasn’t great. but I really like this fella so this isn’t a deal breaker.
however, i want to enjoy kissing him. how should I let him know how i prefer to be kissed? should i verbalize it? would it hurt his feelings or embarrass him. What would you say? have you ever been in this situation?
I would love to hear from some men about this one.
thanks.
say that you prefer to be kissed "like this" and show him. It doesn’t have to mean that the original way you guys were kissing was bad, just that you prefer a different way. Hopefully he’ll get the hint without having to ask straight out if "I’m a bad kisser." Good luck.
Mia Rose asked:
Mastering the art of kissing necessitates a warning: French kissing will not only bring back delicious memories of what it feels like to be head-over-heels in love; it can also become seriously addictive. You just won’t believe what four lips and two tongues can get up to with a little bit of creativity.
So you think you’re a good kisser?
Well, you better be. Whether it’s your first kiss or your hundredth, both men and women use kissing as an assessment device. A study done at the University of Albany concluded that first kisses are often dealbreakers in terms of how a relationship will play out. Women often feel that a first kiss can predict how good a lover a guy will be. Bad kisses will deter both sexes in getting involved with each other, but women generally place more emphasis on kissing than men. This has to do with the fact that female sexual arousal takes longer than male arousal. For women, kissing is a welcome part of extended foreplay, whilst men would happily forego kissing in favour of intercourse.
The art of kissing makes lip-locking way more than an appetizer. It can be the main course – and certainly a continuing presence during the act of making love. It models the very essence of sensuality and intimacy and transports you to a shared place where passions are free to rise.
Kissing Tips and Techniques
1. First, always carry a mint. You get judged by the way your breath smells and your mouth tastes.
2. Lips are important too. Make sure they’re moist and soft. First contact feels good if it’s as light as a butterfly landing. Just brush your lips against each other, then focus on your lover’s bottom lip and nibble gently. Lips are one of the most responsive erogenous zones on the body, so make full use of its erotic pull.
3. Think ‘seduction’ as you relax into a full-mouth kiss. Meet your partner’s tongue in your mouth and circle it lightly. Find that perfect balance between not too dry, but certainly not too wet and sloppy. Be careful not to open your mouth too wide. It’s also good to remember that men prefer wetter kisses and more tongue action than most women, so adjust your style to please your partner.
4. Up the ante by pushing your tongue into your lover’s mouth to explore the roof of their mouth, which is another particularly sensitive area. Pull their tongue into your mouth and give it a slow and sensuous blow-job. Tenderly suck on it, play with it and circle the tip with your tongue.
5. Don’t forget to use your hands to enhance the experience. Cup your partner’s face and caress their face with your fingers. Press your lower body into theirs, but don’t get too distracted from what your lips and tongue are up to. That’s where the main action is!
6. Chances are good that you’ll both be thoroughly aroused by this time. Keep varying your tongue movements: slow then fast, soft, hard, then hold still and let them do the work for a while. Make sure it lasts a good, long time.
Of course, you don’t need to stay on the lips. Travel around your lover’s face, to the cheeks, the space just under the ears… Trace the line of their jaw, gently kissing, gliding your tongue across the skin and then lightly exhaling on damp skin.
If you want to pride yourself on being a good lover, the art of kissing is a great place to start!
French Kissing
Mastering the art of kissing necessitates a warning: French kissing will not only bring back delicious memories of what it feels like to be head-over-heels in love; it can also become seriously addictive. You just won’t believe what four lips and two tongues can get up to with a little bit of creativity.
So you think you’re a good kisser?
Well, you better be. Whether it’s your first kiss or your hundredth, both men and women use kissing as an assessment device. A study done at the University of Albany concluded that first kisses are often dealbreakers in terms of how a relationship will play out. Women often feel that a first kiss can predict how good a lover a guy will be. Bad kisses will deter both sexes in getting involved with each other, but women generally place more emphasis on kissing than men. This has to do with the fact that female sexual arousal takes longer than male arousal. For women, kissing is a welcome part of extended foreplay, whilst men would happily forego kissing in favour of intercourse.
The art of kissing makes lip-locking way more than an appetizer. It can be the main course – and certainly a continuing presence during the act of making love. It models the very essence of sensuality and intimacy and transports you to a shared place where passions are free to rise.
Kissing Tips and Techniques
1. First, always carry a mint. You get judged by the way your breath smells and your mouth tastes.
2. Lips are important too. Make sure they’re moist and soft. First contact feels good if it’s as light as a butterfly landing. Just brush your lips against each other, then focus on your lover’s bottom lip and nibble gently. Lips are one of the most responsive erogenous zones on the body, so make full use of its erotic pull.
3. Think ‘seduction’ as you relax into a full-mouth kiss. Meet your partner’s tongue in your mouth and circle it lightly. Find that perfect balance between not too dry, but certainly not too wet and sloppy. Be careful not to open your mouth too wide. It’s also good to remember that men prefer wetter kisses and more tongue action than most women, so adjust your style to please your partner.
4. Up the ante by pushing your tongue into your lover’s mouth to explore the roof of their mouth, which is another particularly sensitive area. Pull their tongue into your mouth and give it a slow and sensuous blow-job. Tenderly suck on it, play with it and circle the tip with your tongue.
5. Don’t forget to use your hands to enhance the experience. Cup your partner’s face and caress their face with your fingers. Press your lower body into theirs, but don’t get too distracted from what your lips and tongue are up to. That’s where the main action is!
6. Chances are good that you’ll both be thoroughly aroused by this time. Keep varying your tongue movements: slow then fast, soft, hard, then hold still and let them do the work for a while. Make sure it lasts a good, long time.
Of course, you don’t need to stay on the lips. Travel around your lover’s face, to the cheeks, the space just under the ears… Trace the line of their jaw, gently kissing, gliding your tongue across the skin and then lightly exhaling on damp skin.
If you want to pride yourself on being a good lover, the art of kissing is a great place to start!
French Kissing