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To kiss or not to kiss — that is the question that hovers in every person’s mind. While driving your date back home after a romantic evening, you may feel a bit tensed and excited as you keep thinking whether you should kiss your date at her doorstep or in the car after turning off the ignition. Well, the first thing to remember that the kiss will hold the future for both of you.
Let us take the women’s perspective. While most girls love kissing, some do not. Men may think about the ways of kissing but some women are not prepared to take such a bold step. Thus, the first kiss with your date is always difficult as everything might depend on it. While some are quite experienced in handling such situations, others may freeze with fear and anxiety.
Here are some ways to initiate a kiss and make the kissing experience beautiful and memorable experience:
Relax
Yes, relax. Wait for the chance to come. Allow her to know you well enough before you initiate a kiss. During the date, have a conversation with her in a more casual way without being too romantic. That will make her feel more comfortable.
Decide your steps:
Before going forward to kiss your date, the first thing that you should bear in mind is whether your date is ready to lock lips with you. She may interrupt by talking about some different topic. So, it is best to decide and plan your steps.
The first move:
While making the first move, look out for her body language. Most women like to touch or keep their hands on the shoulders of a person to whom they are attracted. These positive signs from a woman will make you feel less anxious and you may feel free to kiss her.
The final showdown:
Generally a woman does not mind a gentle soft kiss on her first date. The first approach is the most important part of kissing. Lean close towards her lips without directly going for the kill. If she is interested she will move towards you a little bit. Without rushing just put your hands gently on the back of her neck and kiss her gently on the lips. Do not apply too much pressure on her neck and avoid pulling her towards you. Do not try the French kiss on the very first date!
And, above all, make sure that your have a pleasant breath. Nothing is a bigger turn off than bad breath!
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To kiss or not to kiss — that is the question that hovers in every person’s mind. While driving your date back home after a romantic evening, you may feel a bit tensed and excited as you keep thinking whether you should kiss your date at her doorstep or in the car after turning off the ignition. Well, the first thing to remember that the kiss will hold the future for both of you.
Let us take the women’s perspective. While most girls love kissing, some do not. Men may think about the ways of kissing but some women are not prepared to take such a bold step. Thus, the first kiss with your date is always difficult as everything might depend on it. While some are quite experienced in handling such situations, others may freeze with fear and anxiety.
Here are some ways to initiate a kiss and make the kissing experience beautiful and memorable experience:
Relax
Yes, relax. Wait for the chance to come. Allow her to know you well enough before you initiate a kiss. During the date, have a conversation with her in a more casual way without being too romantic. That will make her feel more comfortable.
Decide your steps:
Before going forward to kiss your date, the first thing that you should bear in mind is whether your date is ready to lock lips with you. She may interrupt by talking about some different topic. So, it is best to decide and plan your steps.
The first move:
While making the first move, look out for her body language. Most women like to touch or keep their hands on the shoulders of a person to whom they are attracted. These positive signs from a woman will make you feel less anxious and you may feel free to kiss her.
The final showdown:
Generally a woman does not mind a gentle soft kiss on her first date. The first approach is the most important part of kissing. Lean close towards her lips without directly going for the kill. If she is interested she will move towards you a little bit. Without rushing just put your hands gently on the back of her neck and kiss her gently on the lips. Do not apply too much pressure on her neck and avoid pulling her towards you. Do not try the French kiss on the very first date!
And, above all, make sure that your have a pleasant breath. Nothing is a bigger turn off than bad breath!
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