ok. 36yo female here. guy is 39yo. had our first kiss after a date last night & it wasn’t great. but I really like this fella so this isn’t a deal breaker.
however, i want to enjoy kissing him. how should I let him know how i prefer to be kissed? should i verbalize it? would it hurt his feelings or embarrass him. What would you say? have you ever been in this situation?
I would love to hear from some men about this one.
thanks.
say that you prefer to be kissed "like this" and show him. It doesn’t have to mean that the original way you guys were kissing was bad, just that you prefer a different way. Hopefully he’ll get the hint without having to ask straight out if "I’m a bad kisser." Good luck.
just practice w/ him. if it dont get better than tell him. kk
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Well, at first just take the lead when kissing. If you need to, grab his face in your hands and plant your mouth where you like it and guide him. If he doesn’t follow your lead, then you might need to vocalize what you like.
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Just take over and kiss how you want to kiss and he will follow your lead. I would put your hands on his chest to exhibit "control" and take over and show him how you want it. When he learns a good technique, it will be much more fun.
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umm no unless you want to hurt his feelings and make him break up with you. never say anything but try to guide him
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say that you prefer to be kissed "like this" and show him. It doesn’t have to mean that the original way you guys were kissing was bad, just that you prefer a different way. Hopefully he’ll get the hint without having to ask straight out if "I’m a bad kisser." Good luck.
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have more kisses..let’s not judge by one
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